Is swinging for us?

Are you swingers? Answering this question can prove to be difficult for most couples who are thinking about trying out a swinging experience. There are so many things to consider when exploring the possibilities of an open relationship.

First, you must both be ready to explore. Maybe you've fantasized about this for a while, or the thought of including another person in your sexual fun is something you both get off on! But it's more complicated than that..... read on.

Swinging, sex with other people with your partners permission...can be fun and exciting, you'll always find swingers in the UK to be friendly and welcoming. Before you swing, you must understand what swinging is. Swinging is the act of participating in sexual activity with someone other than your partner, with your partners knowledge and approval. Swinging isn't cheating, and swinging is a recreational activity. Swinging is a lifestyle of openness and communication between a couple where there are no secrets. Swinging is knowing and deriving pleasure from the fact that your partner is enjoying themselves.

It is a good idea to make rules between yourselves, for example

	If one of you wants to stop, no matter if the other is enjoying themselves, then you do.
	Some people like to kiss the people they are swinging with, some don't!
	Some people like to do it in the same room as their partners, some prefer privacy, you must agree on points like these before you swing.

Ok...so you want to be a swinger in the uk?

Ask yourself and your partner the following questions to see if you and your partner are ready to explore the lifestyle.

	Overall, how would you rate your relationship?
	Is honesty, trust, and commitment the foundation of your relationship?
	Are you both sexually brave...curious...and do you like to explore and experiment with each other?
	Have you discussed it at length, then discussed it some more?
	Do you understand your own fantasies, and your partners fantasies and want to make them a reality?

There are no right or wrong answers here, but in order to have a successful relationship that includes swinging, a couple must have a strong foundation of trust and honesty, both be willing participants, and are able to speak their minds about what they want. If you have that.....and you are more than curious about making the fantasy a reality.... swinging may be for you. Welcome to the world of swinging.